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I think part of the problem in the illusion of choice is that when presented with so many decisions to make, one often ends up not making any decisions at all. It’s as though we’re hoping that by not making a choice, somehow a choice will magically be made for us.We tend to freeze, to stall, to wait, and to postpone decision making out of fear of making the wrong choice. I personally know plenty of Christian men who have fallen into that trap, rejecting the bright, godly, amazing women God has put in front of their eyes out of fear of missing out on something or someone that might not even exist.That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Any emotional attachment you have toward a person who is not on the same spiritual page as you, or vice versa, is an unhealthy attachment. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do. Ever turned on the television or radio to catch a sermon, song, or message seemingly written specifically for you? If you’re a believer dating an unsaved person, your date has not only rejected the Lord but also the Lord living in you. Read and learn from those such as Samson of the Bible, and do now what you’ll otherwise wish you would have done later. If it’s true that you don’t want to look back someday after the romantic feelings subside (and they will), and regret you lost (amongst other blessings) valuable time. Then, ask God for discernment as you listen to others’ advice.
Talk about poor odds for getting a “ring by spring”.
If you can’t get peace, that is an answer.” When God opens the door for marriage in your life, you will know that you know you are with the right person. Here’s why: in the dating world, thoughts like, “I can’t break up because…,” mean that doubt has given the keys to fear which will drive you down a rough road containing potholes of confusion and bumps of anxiety.
If you aren’t 100 percent certain that things should progress, you’d better take a time-out from the relationship and pray for God to clearly confirm His will! If that’s not enough, your joy tank will eventually read empty.
Thanks to the internet, at any given moment, there are thousands of people to choose from just at our fingertips. There is an array of choices, colors, styles, personalities, and body types right before his two little eyes.
Not only that, but we are made to believe that the more choices, the better. With so many choices, it takes a whole lot of making-out to find the right one (insert sarcastic voice here).